We held a memorial service for Grandma on Saturday. I didn’t want Mom to have to do everything, so i stepped up and took responsibility for some of the planning and execution. It was a nice service, with all family members doing the talking rather than someone who barely knew her. Mom told us about Grandma’s life, i read a poem that i wrote for her, Tim, Mary Kaye and Vicki said a few words about her and Danny sang a song whose words were from the poem “Do not stand at my grave and weep.” Amy’s soundtrack brought everything together beautifully.

Grandma's Collage
The photo collage i put together for the service

Program cover
The cover of the program i created for the service

Grandma's Memorial
The chapel where the service was held

After the service the family had a big dinner together, and then we gathered at Grandpa’s house and sat around a fire pit in the back yard talking for hours. It was really lovely, and i only wish that all my siblings could have been there. I heard talk of an upcoming family reunion, so hopefully a similar gathering will take place under happier circumstances soon.

We miss you, Grandma.

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  1. Nina says:

    September 23rd, 2008 at 12:10 pm

    You did a very good job and thank you for helping out so much so we could say goodbye. I just loved the programs you made, they are so pretty. I left mine in your car, btw, so if you could save that for me I would appreciate it. Sorry you had to eat the leftover pizza ;-) I just couldn’t bring myself to eat any more of it.

  2. Jules Joyce says:

    September 26th, 2008 at 1:48 pm

    Steph,

    My condolences on the death of your grandmother. What a beautiful lady. The photo collage and the service program cover are lovely.

    In Sympathy,
    Jules Joyce


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